Bullies! Why Do They Exist?!?!

 

Bullies! Why Do They Exist?!?!

Hi peeps, It's Nikita! I’m pretty sure everyone has faced bullies in their life…. Well, I have too :'D. And I’m gonna share my insight on this topic to help the people who are or have been in my situation!

When we talk to people about the issue of bullying, many people tend to say things like "Bullies bully because they have been bullied" or "They bully because they are having a tough time with something themselves". I think you're going to agree with me that all this is just total crap. From my experience, bullies just tend to have bad nature. They seem to possess that typical feeling of being "better" than someone and they tend to look down upon the person they are bullying. Generally, we get told by our elders to do something along the lines of the following:

1. Ignore them! (Oh, what a wonderful choice this is, almost wants to puke out all that glamourous waste I have in my tummy)
2. Tell the elders. (Okay, this is a fair enough option, but in 80% of the cases, elders don't give a shit about the child who is being bullied. As long as you and the bully will come to school, you're going to keep being bullied by the bully)
3. Don't snap back. It'll make you the same as the bullies. (Now this, my lads, is utter bullshit. In other words, they're telling you to not stand up for yourself. Just keep on being bullied until someone comes to save your ass, which most probably won't even happen. LMFAO.)

It is as ridiculous as it can get. I'm not even kidding when I say that 😩. So, what can you actually do about your situation? I'll give you a few options, but it'll be up to you if you want to follow them or not. I would recommend you to give them a try! Its better than sitting and just enduring that shit :].

1. First option is always going to be to tell the elders. I know, I know, I had literally just slandered this option. But, in those 20% of the cases in which it works, there's really no demerit in trying it out! And, obviously, you shouldn't just keep it all to yourself. It might actually sort out stuff in some cases, but don't ya worry, for the people who've already tried this out and it didn't work, keep reading!
2. Alright! If the first option didn't help you, then its about time you stand up for yourself. Keep your chin up and confront the bullies. No, you can't chicken out from this option. I'll tell you what. The bullying isn't going to magically stop. You're the one who will have to make a change, if the people around you won't give a shit, then you're the one who will have to give a shit. I know, its going to be tough, but if you try, you might just be able to get out of your predicament. I honestly wish someone had persuaded me to do this back then :(. It would've helped me a ton!
3. If your case includes physical forms of bullying, then there is a chance that none of the above would work for you. I'm really sorry if that is the case for you. I might seem really bitchy to you for giving you this option, but, its hard to get those kind of people to stop. If nothing works for you, you could consider changing your class, school, or perhaps where you live, depending on the environment the bullying is occurring in. Start fresh in a new environment. It might just be for the best. On the bright side though, you would be able to meet new nicer people and perhaps even make some new friends!

That's all for now. My next blog will cover ways you can ease the mental pressure bullying might currently be putting on you. Stay tuned for it!

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